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Serenity Tonight

Eli Hornby

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God, grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change. Diane is driving me mad. I cannot change Diane. Under a sheen of civility, her attitude is increasingly negative and adversarial.

Cognitive performance enahncement

Jason Schwartz

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Head to head articles for and against the acceptability of people taking methylphenidate to enhance performance. The against column offers an interesting ethical argument: Drug enhancements will be a

The sky doesn't fall in

Jason Schwartz

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More on Portugal's decriminalization strategy:Some question aspects of the system, but what Portugal's controversial experiment has demonstrated is that, if you take the crime out of drug use, the sky

I never liked cards

Kristin H.

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When I was a little girl, my four older brothers used to torment me for sport. Holding me down and dangling spit loogies over my face was a good one. Wrapping me up in blankets like a burrito and ya

Independence to be sober!

A. Miles

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We hope everyone is enjoying summertime and plans on having a fun, safe Independence Day weekend. For those of you who might spontaneously decide to take a road trip or join up for some 12 Step fellow

Was Michael Jackson Anorexic?

Bill

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The autopsy has been kept private, the cause of death is unknown, but that hasn't stopped theories about Michael Jackson's demise from thriving like immorality at an OK! magazine pitch meeting. One hy

Let's Get Personal.

JunkysWife

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Tonight, my students are learning about how to write personal narratives. I've sent them on a mission to discover a few great examples of personal stories, and one of the places I sent them was to the

The Little Bird

Mama MPJ

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I don't remember how it was I first noticed the little bird huddled at the edge of the sidewalk. Did I hear it cheep or see a faint movement? But there it was: a little chick that had fallen out of

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